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In simple terms, learn when to shut up and not say a thing and know when to say something that adds value, a new, different, useful perspective, kindness, goodness, encouragement, and/or helpful words. It’s not hard like ignorant people make it look, I swear. Also, listening is key. Once you start actually listening to others, you’ll know the right moment to speak when it comes.